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Frequently Asked Questions About our Catholic Faith and Practices

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Why Do I Need to Go to Mass?  Why Can't I Just Worship God at Home?


Sometimes you wonder why you should go to Mass at all. I mean, it’s Sunday and there are a hundred other fun things you want to do. Besides, this is your one chance to sleep in, and Church is going to be boring anyway! Can’t you just stay home and worship God in your way for once?
 
Sure, you could worship God at home - and you should every day of the week - but on Sundays God WANTS YOU to worship with other Catholics as a community. It’s the one day of the week when God wants all of the “family” of sons and daughters together for a “family gathering” of worship and thanksgiving. That is what the Catholic Church teaches.
 
Missing Mass is like missing a family gathering, such as Thanksgiving dinner. Maybe people won’t notice you’re not there as they would at Thanksgiving, but God notices. And besides, the main person who will notice is YOU. Why? Because (as John Donne said...) “No man is an island.” Besides…Sunday Mass is a time to witness to YOUR faith.
 
We all need things from other people, and we all have things to GIVE to other people. That’s why God wants us to celebrate Eucharist together on Sundays. Our parish might not offer the greatest Mass experience for you, but part of that might be because you are not doing anything to make it better! The Bible says, “We should not stay away from our assembly, as is the custom of some, but encourage one another.” (Hebrews 10:25)
 
Besides, what goes on at Mass is not something that you could just do by yourself in your own home. It’s doing what Jesus asked us to do in memory of Him. It’s the Lord’s Supper, in which Jesus offers Himself as the “Bread of Life,” changing bread and wine into His own Body and Blood so that His followers would achieve complete union with Him. The Mass is also a memorial - a reenactment that makes present Jesus’ death on the Cross, in which He offered Himself to the Father as a sacrifice for our sins.
 
We call the Mass the “Eucharist,” which means “thanksgiving,” because it’s joining Jesus in thanking God for the gift of life, love and salvation given us in Jesus Christ. In the Mass, we join the priest, who stands in the place of Christ, offering Himself to the Father for us. With the whole Church, we make up the body of Christ and offer ourselves in love to the Father. That’s why it is so important for us to be there!

Why Do Catholics Pray to Mary?

The answer to this question lies in the the fact that we don't "worship" Mary. It is NOT a teaching of the Church that we worship Mary nor even is she as Holy as Jesus or God. In fact the word "worship" is a word we use in relation ONLY to God (the Trinity), The Father, Son and the Holy Spirit.
 
We, as Catholics honor Mary, we do not worship her. It is a general concept/practice of the Church to show Mary the rightful honor that she deserves as the Mother of God.
Many protestant people assume that when we refer to the Immaculate Conception, that we are talking about Jesus. In reality, it was Mary who was conceived without sin before she gave birth, without sin, to Jesus (Scripture backs up this teaching in many places, and is thus a strong teaching of the Church). In fact, it does make logical sense that Jesus would not be born of a women who had ANY sin about her.
 
And it is because of Mary's nature (fully human, yet without sin) that the Catholic Church regards our Blessed Mother as worthy of our faith and praise. This is why some Catholics have a strong devotion to Mary as a model for all humans, especially for women and mothers.
 
It may seem, however, like Catholics place Mary above Jesus and even God sometimes to the outside observer. In actuality, a great many Catholics have a deep devotion to Mary and recognize the divinity given to her by God. In essence, what we Catholics are doing when we pray "to" Mary is that we are not actually praying "to" her as if she were God, but praying "to" her in the sense that she has a special grace with God for us humans to use in delivering our prayer to God.
 
So, a proper outlook of Mary in the Church would be to say that Catholics pray "through" Mary to God and not say that Catholics pray "to" Mary.
 
In defense of some Catholics who seem to focus solely on Mary, the following comment may be of some help; "The Catholic Church is the only church that gives the proper respect to our Blessed Mother, Mary" – Rev. Billy Graham, a protestant minister.

Why Do Catholics Pray to Statues and Other Objects?

The short answer is we don't pray TO the statue/object, but rather we pray USING the statue/object.
 
A good analogy for why the Catholic church has and puts emphasis on so many statues, pictures, relics, and sacramental type items is that they are a way of deepening our faith experience in prayer.
 
You might relate to this concept with the following example. Let's say you have a picture of your wife and children. You take this picture with you on a long journey where you are away from them for many months. During this time, you take out the picture and look at it for long periods of time or maybe even kiss it in honor / remembrance of your family and the love you have for them.
 
Is it the picture you love or what it represents?
 
Good, practicing, informed Catholics will tell you that it is NOT the picture or the statue that we love and honor, but what they represent that we love. We are not placing our faith into objects but into Gods love for his people. We do this in honoring and remembering the love we have for others, the Church and for God.

Why do I need to confess my sins to a Priest? - Why can't I just talk to God and tell him "I'm sorry"? - God forgives my sin, not the Priest, right?

Confession in the Priesthood is an integral part of the Catholic Faith. It is founded absolutely in Scripture as Jesus, on Easter Sunday after he rose from the dead, appeared to his apostles (The First Priests) and gave them the authority to forgive sins - "Who's sins you forgive they are forgiven them.”
 
Likewise, Jesus himself established the Priesthood. He founded the Church on Simon/Peter who was the first Pope. He established the apostles and commanded them to go forth and preach the Good News. Jesus knew that after he was gone that men would have to carry on His work. In the Priesthood, Jesus' divinity could continue to "live on" amongst His people on earth. Priests carry Jesus' Holiness to His people in both their word and deed. Therefore, they are FULLY the representatives of Jesus on earth.
 
Most all people would admit that at one time or other in their life that they have sinned. And, most all people would admit that sinning separates us from the fullness of God's love - in other words, when we sin we turn our back on God through sinning against His Commandments, His Church and His People.
 
This separation must be reconciled in some way. Spiritually, it must be reconciled by the sinner truly being sorry for their sin and asking for God's forgiveness. Physically, they must reconcile with the ill effect of that sin and return to union with their brothers and sisters they have sinned against.
 
Confession and absolution by a Priest is the ONLY true way we have of obtaining that FULL reconciliation with God and His Church. For in sin, we have separated ourselves not only from God, but also from the Church (our brothers and sisters on earth).
 
Therefore, the Church must be part of the reconciliation process. The Priest, as God's personage on earth, offers that which he has been given - God's reconciliation and love in delivering God's absolution in a real way to us on earth.
 
And, yes, you should talk directly to God and ask his forgiveness - you ARE most definitely forgiven by God when you are truly sorry for your sin and how it has offended Him.
 
However, your reconciliation is not complete until you have reconciled with God's Church (your brothers and sisters) whom you have also sinned against. All sin, in some way, effects your brothers and sisters on earth. Only the Priest functioning in the capacity that was given to them by Jesus to represent both the Church and God in Confession can truly absolve us from our sins.

What is so special about Communion (Eucharist)? Aren't the wafer and wine just symbols of Christ?

The Catholic Church teaches that through God's gift of the Church and it's Priests, that we are to participate in Holy Communion as it becomes the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer.
 
We, as Catholics, believe that during the Sacrifice of the Mass, the "substance" of the bread (wafer) and wine actually changes to that of the body and blood of Jesus Christ.
 
We call this process, TRANSUBSTANTIATION also known as REAL PRESENCE.
 
Transubstantiation is predicated upon the distinction between two sorts of change: accidental and substantial. Accidental change occurs when non-essential outward properties are transformed in some fashion. Thus, water can take on the properties of solidity (ice) and gas (steam), all the while remaining chemically the same. A substantial change, on the other hand, produces something else altogether. An example of this is the metabolism of food, which becomes part of our bodies as a result of chemical and biological processes initiated by digestion. In our everyday experience, a change of substance is always accompanied by a corresponding transition of accidents, or properties.
 
In the Eucharist a substantial change occurs without accidental alteration. Thus, the properties of bread and wine continue after consecration, but their essence and substance cease to exist, replaced by the substance of the true and actual Body and Blood of Christ.
 
It is this disjunction from the natural laws of physics which causes many to stumble and one of the sharpest dividing points amongst Catholic and Protestant denominations. In fact, many of Jesus' followers left when He brought forth this concept to them, as they viewed it as cannibalism.
 
The basic objection to the Catholic doctrine of the real presence is NOT that it is against Scripture, but that it is against physical reason. The words of Jesus seem plain enough. “This is my body.” This is my blood.” “Unless you eat the flesh of the son of man and drink his blood, you do not have life in you.” “My flesh is real food, my blood is real drink.”
 
Those who do not believe that he meant the Eucharist He said these things, do have much trouble with this belief/concept. The non-belief, however, pre-supposes that God could or would bring about this supernatural change - even if it was asked for by His people in His Church.
 
When in doubt, just listen to and believe in Jesus and what He says and does!



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